Saturday, March 27, 2010

HMMMMMM....Where to begin......

I'll start with Mo  It looks like Mo-bear should be home around July 22!  That's only 4 months away!!! He is busy, busy, busy.  Up on the hill and then when he is down off the hill he is going out on missions daily.  Mo has a big decision ahead of him on choosing what direction he wants to take in his military career.  He is supposed to go into Military Intel. and we should be moving to Arizona.  He has also been thinking about going into Special Forces though.  It's a BIG decision he has to make, but I know he will make the right one. 

This kiddos are great.  I'm finally going to get Gracie back into swim lessons.  I've been slacking big time.  I need to get AJ signed up as well.  That's on my to do list for next week.  The kids and I have been staying super busy in hopes that these next few months will go by quickly. 

Gracie is doing great in school still.  She is going to have to start Kinder. here in Cali because she doesn't meet the deadline in WA state.  So, she will start here and then they have to take her into Kinder. in WA once she has started in another state.  She is soooo ready!  We went back and forth on what to do, but I think we finally got it all figured out.  She has been busy with school, friends, and her crazy cousins.  She is having a blast right now, but she still is missing her Daddy more than ever.


Ashton...oh Ashton.  This kid is my challenge for sure!  He's always sick, and he's just a big mama's boy!  He is such a pain in the booty, but at the same time he is the cutest, little, guy.  He gives you a big cheesy smile and your heart just melts.  He has us all wrapped around his chubby, little, fingers :) He is into EVERYTHING!!  He doesn't like to stay at home...he wants to be on the go constantly.  I'm sooooo excited for Mo to get home and help me out with this one.  I think Morgan is in for it :)  BIG NEWS~~~  AJ had his first experience down on the beach!  Yes, this is very sad seeing that we live right down the road from the ocean.  He doesn't like the sand too much, but I've never seen him so still before.  He just sits and takes it all in.  It was nice
                                                            
As for me, I might be getting a little side job here soon.  I should find out soon if I'm going to be working or not.  I'll tell you more when I know more. 
I'm starting "bootcamp" on Monday :(  I don't know what I got myself into?!?  I'm doing it with a friend and it's 5 days a week starting at 5:30 in the morning!!  That's ridiculously early for me and I might possibly DIE!!!  Hopefully I will get through it.......
She's my special girl :) 





On a side note.... have any of you eaten at the the crushed grape in slo??  yum Yum.  I've never tried it because I assumed it wouldn't be anything I would like.  It's soooooo good!!!  Ya'll got to try it!

HONESTY POLICY!

Random Thoughts: These last few months have been really hard on me for numerous reasons. One thing that I have figured out though...I'm taking on a new HONESTY POLICY!! I've not been honest in the past to avoid uncomfortable situations and to avoid hurting people's feelings. Please don't ask me for my opinion if you don't want to hear my real opinion from here on out!! I've had to learn this the hard way and I'm at peace with it now. I'm really, really, fortunate in the fact that I have a lot of friends that I can turn to in time of need! Gals that I know will give it to me straight and tell me the truth! I owe the same back to my friends and to my family!!  I've really had my feel of fake people, and I in no way want to be one of those people!  So there it is......

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Monday, February 22, 2010

Really Good Info.

Here is some info for all you parents....

7 Steps to Protecting our Children: Introduction


http://www.darkness2light.org/7Steps/7steps.asp


Preventing, Recognizing, and Reacting Responsibly to Child Sexual Abuse - A Guide for Responsible Adults 7 Steps Menu - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 7 Steps Introduction Step 1: Learn the Facts Step 2: Minimize Opportunity Step 3: Talk About It Step 4: Stay Alert Step 5: Make a Plan Step 6: Act on Suspicions Step 7: Stay Involved - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Download 7 Steps Email 7 Steps to a Friend Purchase 7 Steps Products Donate to Support 7 Steps - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 7 Steps en Espanol Our Thanks to... Bibliography



What is child sexual abuse?

Any sexual act between an adult and a minor or between two minors when one exerts power over the other.

Forcing, coercing or persuading a child to engage in any type of sexual act. This, of course, includes sexual contact. It also includes non-contact acts such as exhibitionism, exposure to pornography, voyeurism and communicating in a sexual manner by phone or Internet.

An agonizing and traumatic experience for its victims.

A crime punishable by law.

This booklet is only the beginning.

Child sexual abuse is a very complex problem, and this booklet touches on only a small part of it. The information we provide is not a substitute for the advice of professionals. It is only to give you simple, proactive steps to help protect children.

Step 1: Learn the facts

Realities—not trust—should influence your decisions regarding your child.



Step 2: Minimize Opportunity

If you eliminate or reduce one-adult/one-child situations, you’ll

dramatically lower the risk of sexual abuse for your child.



Step 3: Talk about it

Children often keep abuse a secret, but barriers can be broken down

by talking openly about it.



Step 4: Stay Alert

Don’t expect obvious signs when a child is being sexually abused.



Step 5: Make a Plan

Learn where to go, who to call and how to react.



Step 6: Act on Suspicions

The future well-being of a child is at stake.



Step 7: Get involved

Volunteer and financially support organizations that fight the tragedy

of child sexual abuse.



"My child's school has a program to teach children about sexual abuse prevention- but what about adults? Shouldn't we be responsible for the protection of children?"

A child's safety is an adult's job. Children are often taught how to keep themselves safe from sexual abuse - and that's important for them to learn - but it's no substitute for adult responsibility. We make sure children wear seat belts. We walk them across busy streets. We store toxic household cleaners out of reach. Why, then, would we leave the job of preventing child sexual abuse solely to children?



Imagine how difficult it is for a child to say "no" to a parent, a teacher, a coach, or clergy.



Even the adults we trust to protect children can't always be trusted. Coaches, teachers, clergy, and parents are authority figures children feel they can trust. Yet, a large percentage of those who sexually abuse children are from this group. These are adults who have the opportunity to "groom" children with affection and attention, making it difficult for children to identify certain behaviors as abuse. And they know that children have been taught to "mind" them. This is why programs that focus on adult responsibility are essential.

Update from LTC Clark

February 21, 2010




Hello again from Spin Boldak,



I think the spring time weather has finally arrived here in southern

Afghanistan. Our week started off bitter cold, but by Friday the

temperatures had returned to the 70's during the day. The forecast for

the foreseeable future calls for lows in the mid 40's with highs in the

mid 70's. I am hopeful this weather pattern will remain for an extended

period of time, but I know by April the heat will begin to return.



The big "shura" is knocking on our door; we will execute this event

tomorrow, the 22nd of February. The intent of this event is to update

all the local leaders on what has been accomplished together over the

past seven months. The focus is really an "eye to the future" - looking

to what we can accomplish together once again over the next few months.

Based on the rapport that has been built throughout the district and the

willingness to work together, I have large expectations as we finish out

our rotation in Spin Boldak. I believe we have set the table very well

for our follow-on brothers to further secure and develop this area of

southern Afghanistan.



This past week's operations led to a new type of IED - one never seen

before in the Kandahar province. Not only was the IED itself unique,

the location of the IED was different for us as well. The IED was found

on the underside of a commercial truck parked inside the Spin Boldak

Customs lot, an area we often frequent. Other than this one event, our

week consisted of our normal framework operations from the security,

governance, and a development perspective.



As we look to the future, Task Force Saint will be hosting an Afghan

Security Forces shura in the next two weeks, as well as a shura for a

sub-district called Taktepol (Pronounced: tack-ta-pole) during the month

of March as well. We will also begin our own mini training school for

our security force partners (five day course, conducted on the FOB).

The beginning of March will also see a large influx of visitors, to

include the return visit of General McChrystal, the commander for all of

Afghanistan. Finally, mid March will also see the start of serious

redeployment planning and preparations, to include future FOB expansion

to accommodate a larger presence in this area.



The "Heroes of the Week" are listed below for your review.



B Troop/8-1 CAV (BEAR CAV):

SGT Curtis Webb of 3rd Platoon, originally from Illinois, has been in

the Army for five years and currently serves as a Dismount Team Leader

and NCOIC for his Platoon Leader's Stryker. He is an enthusiastic and

vital member of the Grizzly Platoon, charged with training and helping

with the planning of all dismounted operations. Recently, he helped his

platoon train, plan, and execute a two-day operation to observe and

secure a key route vital for local commerce and traffic. SGT Webb and

his wife Jamie recently welcomed their first child into their family.



C Troop/8-1 CAV (CLOAK):

SPC Soliday is Cloak Troop's Hero of the Week. As a mortar man, SCP

Soliday handles the operation of the mortar tube and additionally serves

as a dismount on the Troop's small kill team (SKT). His positive

attitude, exemplary work ethic and dedication to the team make him

essential to both fire support and SKT operations. No matter how tough

the conditions, SPC Soliday can be relied upon to perform his duty. His

actions reflect great credit upon himself, Cloak Troop and the United

States Army.



D Troop/8-1 CAV (DAKOTA):

SGT Selesnew is a tactical site exploitation NCO who has contributed

greatly to Dakota Troop recently. He displays outstanding

professionalism and aggressively pursues indicators of Taliban presence

when he exploits enemy objectives. SGT Selesnew maintains a database of

all the evidence collected for the brigade and meticulously gathers

information forward in sector during offensive operations. He is a "go

to" NCO who links enemy evidence and turns it into intelligence worthy

of driving future targets. Recently, his team captured and translated

numerous enemy documents while conducting operations in Helmand

Province. He carefully captures the information and correlates the data

for the brigade staff. SGT Selesnew is an outstanding NCO, consummate

professional, and vital member to the Dakota team.



HHT/8-1 CAV (HOSTILE):

The HHT Hero of the Week is SGT Nathan Carlisle. SGT Carlisle is the

NCO in-charge of the Squadron TAC. He is responsible for manning,

training, and resourcing the crews for the Squadron Command group. Over

the last week, the TAC vehicles have been going through a maintenance

upgrade which has made SGT Carlisle balance the maintenance requirements

for his vehicles and personnel while ensuring all missions for TAC

vehicles were supported and accomplished. SGT Carlisle's dedication to

Hostile and the Blackhawk Squadron made him this week's HHT Hero of the

Week.



B Battery/3-17 FA (BULLDOG):

Bulldog's hero of this week is CPL Myers. CPL Myers has stepped up to

the challenge of being a section chief and has really helped Bravo

Battery succeed in completing our mission. His experience and knowledge

was very important to the manual computations that were required to

process multiple simultaneous fire missions and produce great results.

Overall, CPL Myers has really shown his leadership capabilities and

potential to do great things for the United States Army.



As I stated in earlier updates, we have decided to have our tour in

Afghanistan captured by a local artist in Washington. The artist is

currently working on a sketch, which we should be able to review in the

upcoming weeks. If you desire to purchase a print, our initial ordering

period runs through March 15th. God bless.



Sincerely,

LTC William J. Clark

Commander

Task Force Saint

"SAINT 6"