Monday, November 1, 2010

Halloween Time









Here's a few random photos from this month.  It's been a fun and busy month.  Our days have been filled with pre-k, soccer practice, ballet practice, lots of Halloween/Fall activities, and hanging with some great friends.  My Grandma and Mom came to visit for a week in October.  AJ was sick the whole time, but other than that we had a great visit. 
AJ is recovering from double ear infections right now.  It's his first time being sick since moving back to WA. 
We move next month!!!  Already time to move again!  We will be home for a few weeks and then we will be off to Arizona for a short, but new little adventure. 
It's been great having Mo back home.  AJ is in love with his daddy, they are always playing around together.  AJ lights up when Mo walks in the room.  It's been nice to see since I was a little worried about the two of them bonding again with Mo being gone for so long. 
Gracie is enjoying her School, and she just finished up her soccer season.  She is loving Ballet and this week she is going to start cheerleading(God help us)

Wanted to get a quick little update out there.  I will write some more very soon.  Hope everyone is doing well and enjoying this amazing time of year.  So happy that its Holiday time....my favorite time of the year:)

Lots of Love, bri

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Update on CPT Mo!!

Morgan is doing well right now.  He is getting things packed up to leave Afghanistan!!!!  It feels so good to type that finally!  He will be flying into WA around the middle of next month.  We will be there to welcome him home and then we have to stay until the end of July for there big welcome home ceremony and a ball that we have to attend.  We will then make our drive back to CA...making a few stops along the way to see friends:) 
Mo was officially promoted to Cpt. at the beginning of the month.  I think this is the first promotion that he is kinda proud of since being commissioned.  He seems to be doing really good though.  He can hardly wait to get home and just drink a beer :)  He doesn't even care what kind of beer, just a beer.

As for me and the kids....STAYING BUSY as always.  I think I've purposely stayed super busy this month in hopes that the time will go by quickly for us.  Our next trip is a quick trip up north to hang a few days with my bestie

I think that's about it for now.

lots of love to you all!

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Quick B-Field Trip

We took a day trip over to B-field yesterday.  OMG it was HOT there!!  We went to my Uncle's egagement party, and we had a great time....lots of fun.  It was a super short trip, but it's always nice to see family and catch up.
cousins


AJ with his Great Great Grandma


cousins swimming


ha ha   look at Dee :)






trying to get all the little cousins in on this action


Also....Kyle had to go back to the Stan this morning so I snapped a quick family photo of the Hackett Fam before the headed to the airport.





Mo is coming home NEXT MONTH!!!!  It is so strange to finally say that.  We are counting down the days.  He is doing really good, just hanging in there and trying to survive his last month deployed.  We will be heading up to the base next month to greet him, and then we will drive back home and spend the rest of the time with friends and fam.....good stuff! 

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Sunday, May 30, 2010

OUCH!


Miss Gracie took a little fall in our backyard today :(  She got scraped up pretty good.  She wanted me to take a picture for Mo to see, so here is her boo-boo....poor girl

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Random Photos

here is a few random pix from this last week......

love to all!



Saturday, April 24, 2010

The Count Down Begins.

May 31st is the last day to send out mail to Mo and the guys!!!  This is exciting news!  I also got a call from an FRG leader yesterday about where and if it's okay to get a call when the guys are getting back!  This means it's all coming to an end!  I'm so excited to get my bestie back!  It's crazy to have watched a guy that I've know since childhood, grow up and turn into this amazing, strong, man that I have so much respect for.  I've gotten to see a whole other side to Morgan during this deployment, and I think it's been good. 

My baby is all ready for Kindergarten!!  I'm so excited for her.  It was so awesome too, because the teacher that tested her was Mrs. Jamison!  While she walked Gracie back for her testing she told her all about how she was her mommy and daddy's teacher too.  Gracie was so excited and felt so comfortable right away.  It was really neat to watch :)  Gracie has also started her swim lessons and she is doing really good.  She goes a couple days a week, and she is loving it.  I'm signing her up for soccer too. 

Stinkin AJ is sick AGAINNNNN!!!!  When this kid gets sick, he gets SIIIICK!!  It's suckin so bad!  He has a really bad cold and cough.  He has been into the doctor three different times this week and that's not including an appt to get a chest x-ray on him.  The Doc said he looks like he is teething right now too so that isn't helping out.  He is pretty miserable and cries ALOT :(  It's breakin my heart.  I just want this kid healthy for a long period of time!  Hopefully he will start feeling better this next week. 

I'm still doing my bootcamp!  I love it so far.  I only missed one day this month and that was because AJ had me up all night so I missed the alarm in the morning.  I'm up at 4:30 in the morning Monday-Friday.......it sucks, but I know it's worth it. 

Friday, April 9, 2010

Captain Morgan

Mo is on the list to promote to Captain!! He will probably promote next month or the month after. Congrats Mo!!



I swear this picture never gets old :)

Thursday, April 1, 2010

The "high road"

I was on my way home from working out this morning and started thinking about why it's so hard for people to take the "high road"  When I'm talking on this blog, I'm talking just as much to myself as I am anyone who this might hit home to.  It honestly is so much easier to say hurtful, mean things than it is to say nice, encouraging, words!  That's pretty crazy isn't it?!?  I think so!  This is something I'm totally guilty of especially with people that I'm really close to!  The problem for me is that a lot of time I do things in advance to eliminate getting hurt worse!  I guess I don't have enough faith in people, which is also sad!  I guess the challenge for myself is to try and do the right thing even if it kills me, and it might kill me :) 

This time home has been full of challenges and such a learning experience.  Part of me wishes I never would have moved home this deployment, but the other part is glad for the lessons I've learned so far.  It's been an eye opening experience in so many ways.  It sucks, but I guess better to learn some of these lessons now than any later down the road?!? 

Have a good day peeps!!

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Thanks a bunch!!

I had to get a TB Test today.....YUCK!  I didn't care for that much.  I can get my blood taken all day long, but when it's lower in your arm like that.....I don't like that one bit. 

I talked to Mo-bear a couple hours ago, he just got off the hill.  He is going to be out the majority of the time that he's off the hill this time so keep him in your prayers.  He was really sick right before he went up, but they gave him a z-pack and he's feelin good now.  He told me that he got a package from the Willett's and a card from Nancheeee!!  He was very stoked!  I just really want to thank all of our fam and friends that have been soooo supportive through this deployment.  The love has been amazing!! Even the community has played a big part in sending things over.  The guys love getting things, but even just the cards and letters are sooooo helpful and appreciated.  I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for being so kind!! 

Bootcamp:  it's kicken my butt in gear and I LOVE it!!!  I really didn't think I would like it this much.  I'm really hurting, but it feels great.  I haven't felt this sort of pain since volleyball.  I heart it!!  We'll see if I feel the same this time next week though ;)

I'm looking forward to tomorrow....Natasha is watching the kiddos for me and I'm going to go spend some sissy time with Fritts!!  I'm really looking forward to having some no-kid time with her.  We don't get to do that a lot so I'm really excited.  I'm so blessed to have such a great little sister!  I feel sad that Gracie isn't going to have a sister to share life with, but not sad enough to have another one :)  I'm kiddin...really though...She can drive me crazy, but she really is one of my bestest friends!! 

Enough random talk for now......

peace out!

Monday, March 29, 2010

I'm Tired!

Today was officially my first day of "boot camp"   It's from 5:30-6:30 am, Monday-Friday.  I was really nervous going this morning, but I pulled through.  I'm going to be hurting tomorrow that's for sure!  I'm trying to get ready for our Hawaii trip!!  Finallyyyyyy,  Mo and I are going to be able to get away and take a trip together!  It's been a long time coming, and we are so looking forward to it. 
Since I was up bright and early this morning, I went and dropped off Gracie's CCS paperwork first thing.  Gracie had an Easter party at school today.  Her and Tanner came home on cloud 9, they had such a great day.  It's going to be a fun week for all the kids.  There is so much fun stuff planned at school, church, and in the area!  They are going to have a blast.  It's fun to watch them get all excited over the Holidays :) 
Alrighty, I'm SUPER tired and I have to get up at 4:45 tomorrow so I better keep it short.

lots of love....

Saturday, March 27, 2010

ooops

some of the pictures got cut off down below.  You can click on the picture and it will show you the entire thing.

ALSO---LOOK UP---I put Mo's address up top so it's easy to find now

HMMMMMM....Where to begin......

I'll start with Mo  It looks like Mo-bear should be home around July 22!  That's only 4 months away!!! He is busy, busy, busy.  Up on the hill and then when he is down off the hill he is going out on missions daily.  Mo has a big decision ahead of him on choosing what direction he wants to take in his military career.  He is supposed to go into Military Intel. and we should be moving to Arizona.  He has also been thinking about going into Special Forces though.  It's a BIG decision he has to make, but I know he will make the right one. 

This kiddos are great.  I'm finally going to get Gracie back into swim lessons.  I've been slacking big time.  I need to get AJ signed up as well.  That's on my to do list for next week.  The kids and I have been staying super busy in hopes that these next few months will go by quickly. 

Gracie is doing great in school still.  She is going to have to start Kinder. here in Cali because she doesn't meet the deadline in WA state.  So, she will start here and then they have to take her into Kinder. in WA once she has started in another state.  She is soooo ready!  We went back and forth on what to do, but I think we finally got it all figured out.  She has been busy with school, friends, and her crazy cousins.  She is having a blast right now, but she still is missing her Daddy more than ever.


Ashton...oh Ashton.  This kid is my challenge for sure!  He's always sick, and he's just a big mama's boy!  He is such a pain in the booty, but at the same time he is the cutest, little, guy.  He gives you a big cheesy smile and your heart just melts.  He has us all wrapped around his chubby, little, fingers :) He is into EVERYTHING!!  He doesn't like to stay at home...he wants to be on the go constantly.  I'm sooooo excited for Mo to get home and help me out with this one.  I think Morgan is in for it :)  BIG NEWS~~~  AJ had his first experience down on the beach!  Yes, this is very sad seeing that we live right down the road from the ocean.  He doesn't like the sand too much, but I've never seen him so still before.  He just sits and takes it all in.  It was nice
                                                            
As for me, I might be getting a little side job here soon.  I should find out soon if I'm going to be working or not.  I'll tell you more when I know more. 
I'm starting "bootcamp" on Monday :(  I don't know what I got myself into?!?  I'm doing it with a friend and it's 5 days a week starting at 5:30 in the morning!!  That's ridiculously early for me and I might possibly DIE!!!  Hopefully I will get through it.......
She's my special girl :) 





On a side note.... have any of you eaten at the the crushed grape in slo??  yum Yum.  I've never tried it because I assumed it wouldn't be anything I would like.  It's soooooo good!!!  Ya'll got to try it!

HONESTY POLICY!

Random Thoughts: These last few months have been really hard on me for numerous reasons. One thing that I have figured out though...I'm taking on a new HONESTY POLICY!! I've not been honest in the past to avoid uncomfortable situations and to avoid hurting people's feelings. Please don't ask me for my opinion if you don't want to hear my real opinion from here on out!! I've had to learn this the hard way and I'm at peace with it now. I'm really, really, fortunate in the fact that I have a lot of friends that I can turn to in time of need! Gals that I know will give it to me straight and tell me the truth! I owe the same back to my friends and to my family!!  I've really had my feel of fake people, and I in no way want to be one of those people!  So there it is......

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Monday, February 22, 2010

Really Good Info.

Here is some info for all you parents....

7 Steps to Protecting our Children: Introduction


http://www.darkness2light.org/7Steps/7steps.asp


Preventing, Recognizing, and Reacting Responsibly to Child Sexual Abuse - A Guide for Responsible Adults 7 Steps Menu - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 7 Steps Introduction Step 1: Learn the Facts Step 2: Minimize Opportunity Step 3: Talk About It Step 4: Stay Alert Step 5: Make a Plan Step 6: Act on Suspicions Step 7: Stay Involved - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Download 7 Steps Email 7 Steps to a Friend Purchase 7 Steps Products Donate to Support 7 Steps - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 7 Steps en Espanol Our Thanks to... Bibliography



What is child sexual abuse?

Any sexual act between an adult and a minor or between two minors when one exerts power over the other.

Forcing, coercing or persuading a child to engage in any type of sexual act. This, of course, includes sexual contact. It also includes non-contact acts such as exhibitionism, exposure to pornography, voyeurism and communicating in a sexual manner by phone or Internet.

An agonizing and traumatic experience for its victims.

A crime punishable by law.

This booklet is only the beginning.

Child sexual abuse is a very complex problem, and this booklet touches on only a small part of it. The information we provide is not a substitute for the advice of professionals. It is only to give you simple, proactive steps to help protect children.

Step 1: Learn the facts

Realities—not trust—should influence your decisions regarding your child.



Step 2: Minimize Opportunity

If you eliminate or reduce one-adult/one-child situations, you’ll

dramatically lower the risk of sexual abuse for your child.



Step 3: Talk about it

Children often keep abuse a secret, but barriers can be broken down

by talking openly about it.



Step 4: Stay Alert

Don’t expect obvious signs when a child is being sexually abused.



Step 5: Make a Plan

Learn where to go, who to call and how to react.



Step 6: Act on Suspicions

The future well-being of a child is at stake.



Step 7: Get involved

Volunteer and financially support organizations that fight the tragedy

of child sexual abuse.



"My child's school has a program to teach children about sexual abuse prevention- but what about adults? Shouldn't we be responsible for the protection of children?"

A child's safety is an adult's job. Children are often taught how to keep themselves safe from sexual abuse - and that's important for them to learn - but it's no substitute for adult responsibility. We make sure children wear seat belts. We walk them across busy streets. We store toxic household cleaners out of reach. Why, then, would we leave the job of preventing child sexual abuse solely to children?



Imagine how difficult it is for a child to say "no" to a parent, a teacher, a coach, or clergy.



Even the adults we trust to protect children can't always be trusted. Coaches, teachers, clergy, and parents are authority figures children feel they can trust. Yet, a large percentage of those who sexually abuse children are from this group. These are adults who have the opportunity to "groom" children with affection and attention, making it difficult for children to identify certain behaviors as abuse. And they know that children have been taught to "mind" them. This is why programs that focus on adult responsibility are essential.

Update from LTC Clark

February 21, 2010




Hello again from Spin Boldak,



I think the spring time weather has finally arrived here in southern

Afghanistan. Our week started off bitter cold, but by Friday the

temperatures had returned to the 70's during the day. The forecast for

the foreseeable future calls for lows in the mid 40's with highs in the

mid 70's. I am hopeful this weather pattern will remain for an extended

period of time, but I know by April the heat will begin to return.



The big "shura" is knocking on our door; we will execute this event

tomorrow, the 22nd of February. The intent of this event is to update

all the local leaders on what has been accomplished together over the

past seven months. The focus is really an "eye to the future" - looking

to what we can accomplish together once again over the next few months.

Based on the rapport that has been built throughout the district and the

willingness to work together, I have large expectations as we finish out

our rotation in Spin Boldak. I believe we have set the table very well

for our follow-on brothers to further secure and develop this area of

southern Afghanistan.



This past week's operations led to a new type of IED - one never seen

before in the Kandahar province. Not only was the IED itself unique,

the location of the IED was different for us as well. The IED was found

on the underside of a commercial truck parked inside the Spin Boldak

Customs lot, an area we often frequent. Other than this one event, our

week consisted of our normal framework operations from the security,

governance, and a development perspective.



As we look to the future, Task Force Saint will be hosting an Afghan

Security Forces shura in the next two weeks, as well as a shura for a

sub-district called Taktepol (Pronounced: tack-ta-pole) during the month

of March as well. We will also begin our own mini training school for

our security force partners (five day course, conducted on the FOB).

The beginning of March will also see a large influx of visitors, to

include the return visit of General McChrystal, the commander for all of

Afghanistan. Finally, mid March will also see the start of serious

redeployment planning and preparations, to include future FOB expansion

to accommodate a larger presence in this area.



The "Heroes of the Week" are listed below for your review.



B Troop/8-1 CAV (BEAR CAV):

SGT Curtis Webb of 3rd Platoon, originally from Illinois, has been in

the Army for five years and currently serves as a Dismount Team Leader

and NCOIC for his Platoon Leader's Stryker. He is an enthusiastic and

vital member of the Grizzly Platoon, charged with training and helping

with the planning of all dismounted operations. Recently, he helped his

platoon train, plan, and execute a two-day operation to observe and

secure a key route vital for local commerce and traffic. SGT Webb and

his wife Jamie recently welcomed their first child into their family.



C Troop/8-1 CAV (CLOAK):

SPC Soliday is Cloak Troop's Hero of the Week. As a mortar man, SCP

Soliday handles the operation of the mortar tube and additionally serves

as a dismount on the Troop's small kill team (SKT). His positive

attitude, exemplary work ethic and dedication to the team make him

essential to both fire support and SKT operations. No matter how tough

the conditions, SPC Soliday can be relied upon to perform his duty. His

actions reflect great credit upon himself, Cloak Troop and the United

States Army.



D Troop/8-1 CAV (DAKOTA):

SGT Selesnew is a tactical site exploitation NCO who has contributed

greatly to Dakota Troop recently. He displays outstanding

professionalism and aggressively pursues indicators of Taliban presence

when he exploits enemy objectives. SGT Selesnew maintains a database of

all the evidence collected for the brigade and meticulously gathers

information forward in sector during offensive operations. He is a "go

to" NCO who links enemy evidence and turns it into intelligence worthy

of driving future targets. Recently, his team captured and translated

numerous enemy documents while conducting operations in Helmand

Province. He carefully captures the information and correlates the data

for the brigade staff. SGT Selesnew is an outstanding NCO, consummate

professional, and vital member to the Dakota team.



HHT/8-1 CAV (HOSTILE):

The HHT Hero of the Week is SGT Nathan Carlisle. SGT Carlisle is the

NCO in-charge of the Squadron TAC. He is responsible for manning,

training, and resourcing the crews for the Squadron Command group. Over

the last week, the TAC vehicles have been going through a maintenance

upgrade which has made SGT Carlisle balance the maintenance requirements

for his vehicles and personnel while ensuring all missions for TAC

vehicles were supported and accomplished. SGT Carlisle's dedication to

Hostile and the Blackhawk Squadron made him this week's HHT Hero of the

Week.



B Battery/3-17 FA (BULLDOG):

Bulldog's hero of this week is CPL Myers. CPL Myers has stepped up to

the challenge of being a section chief and has really helped Bravo

Battery succeed in completing our mission. His experience and knowledge

was very important to the manual computations that were required to

process multiple simultaneous fire missions and produce great results.

Overall, CPL Myers has really shown his leadership capabilities and

potential to do great things for the United States Army.



As I stated in earlier updates, we have decided to have our tour in

Afghanistan captured by a local artist in Washington. The artist is

currently working on a sketch, which we should be able to review in the

upcoming weeks. If you desire to purchase a print, our initial ordering

period runs through March 15th. God bless.



Sincerely,

LTC William J. Clark

Commander

Task Force Saint

"SAINT 6"

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

My Baby Is All Better

Finallyyyyy!!!  AJ is like a new kid.  I'm so happy that is all behind us.  He is happy, he just started sleeping through the night again, he was walking like crazy hours after his surgery....it's been amazing the difference.  He does have a temper though.  My goodness, the kid screams like crazy and has a horrible temper, so now we are working on his little fits:) 



this little guy has been so challenging, but such a joy in my life.  He will just look at you and give you a smile to die for. 


My Miss Gracie....that kid is going to kill us! 
She has such an attitude right now and  I just don't know where she gets it from?! ;)  She is one of a kind that's for sure!  She is doing good in school and her Laney and Tanner get here tomorrow (for GOOD) so she is just thrilled to have them right here with her.  I'm sure they will be getting into lots of trouble in the days to come.



Mo is doing ok.  This has kind of been a hard week on both of us.  Just a lot going on and dealing with some personal issues....it's been a little crazy, but we are getting through with the support of one another.  We only have 5 months until he comes back home!!! 

Nancy, Jake and Ronin came home this weekend!  They stayed at the house and it was so nice to have them here as always!  Poor Jake was constantly attacked by my children!  They both adore the little Blackner Family.  We are really blessed to have them in our lives......



Saturday, January 16, 2010

This is exciting info.

Families Can See Off, Greet Troops at Airport Gates- TSA permits the airlines to offer a gate pass to family members of arriving or departing U.S. Servicemembers. Though TSA allows this practice, the final decision rests with the airlines, from which family members must request the passes. Each airline, and possibly even airport, has its own rules and procedures. Families interested in obtaining a gate pass need to check with the airline before arriving at the airport to determine the exact rules and procedures. TSA makes this allowance out of support for the armed forces. Though military family members with gate passes can pass through security, they must adhere to all security regulations. This includes removing coats, jackets and shoes, and the liquids regulation. Anything of a liquid or gel consistency must be 3.4 ounces or less and be sealed in a quart-sized storage bag to pass through security. Each family member would have to present the gate pass as well as a valid government-issued identification card. To learn more, go to: http://www.army.mil/-news/2009/12/16/31897-families-can-see-off-greet-troops-at-airport-gates/index.html

Bri's Frugal Finds Blog

http://bbfrugalfinds.blogspot.com/   

Sooooo....forget about the other blog that I was doing on deals....here is my new one.  I just did it on blogger as well because it's so much easier to keep up with it on here.  Plus it will help me to post more on my personal blog:)  It's a win win! 
Check it out!!

Mommy and Gracie time

I got AJ to sleep for a bit so me and Gracie decided to do some quick baking together.  We got in our pj's and spent some girl time together.  It was nice since AJ has been taking up the majority of my time lately.  He is my happy girl getting ready to bake up something yuuuummmmyyy :)


Wednesday, January 13, 2010

SICK AGAIN!! AAWWWWW!!

I've been up most the night with my little man.  He has been running a high temp all night.   It seems like every time he finally gets to feeling better....BAM...he gets sick again!  I'm going to call the Doctor today and have her take a look at him.  I really feel like I need to go to the ENT doc.  Hopefully  can get a referral to do so today.  I'm sure his ear infection is back in full force.  I will keep ya'll updated!

Mo called me last night.  He is doing good.  The phone was acting up so we kept getting cut off and then he had to go to a meeting so our talk time was short.  He is on his 3 days off right now.  Well, I wouldnt really say he is off work, but atleast he is off the hill and can call home :)

uh oh...AJ's crying. Gots to go!

Monday, January 4, 2010

Mo's Cute Outfit


So here you can see a little more of Mo's little outfit that was made for him.  Since it was made special for him from some Afghani's it was a sign of respect that he take a picture of himself in it at his home with his family.  It was quite an outfit :)



Spotted AJ

AJ has been suffering from ear infections for over 3 months now.  He get's them on and off, but the doctors have had him on a bunch of antibiodics and nothing seems to be keeping these infections gone.  The last antibiotic the doctor decided to try did not agree well with my little man at all!!  What's horrible is these pictures really don't do it justice.  I have the really bad pix on my iphone and haven't transferred them onto my computer yet.  The poor guy was covered from head to toe in horrible rash and he was super swollen.  He couldn't scratch his body enough....he was so miserable.  After two ER trips and finally being admitted to the hospital....AJ is home and looking normal again.  The peds. Doctor said it was the worse allergic reaction that he had ever seen.  If it had gotten any worse they were going to have to send us to Childrens Hospital.  I'm so happy it didn't come to that. We only spent one night in the hospital(New Years Eve) 




Christmas is OVER!!!!

I'm usually sad to put away all the Christmas decor and to be done with all the shopping....NOT THIS YEAR!!!  Next year Daddy gets to celebrate with us, and I can't wait to do Christmas up big next year! 
For Christmas....we spent Christmas Eve with Mo's side and Christmas Day with my side.  We actually went to Bakersfield on Christmas day, and it was a really chill day.  We had to do Christmas with Britt, Kyle and the kids a couple days early because Kyle had to be back to work on Christmas day.  The kids had a blast though, and I'm pretty sure they got everything they were asking for.  Although....we did see those stupid zhu-zhu pets on a commercial yesterday, and Gracie remembered that she didn't get one for Christmas....she will live!  All in all it was a great Holiday, but it wasn't the same without the Mo-bear around....